Spend Quality Time And Say It

 

 Spend Quality Time And Say It 

With all the distractions of today’s daily needs of every individual, it is sometimes very difficult for people to stop and make the effort to spend quality time with their significant other.

Commitments and distractions often cause the parties to go through life without actually fortifying the relationship until it suffers significantly enough to be on the verge of collapse.

This is indeed a rather poor state of affairs to be in, thus the need to ensure some quality time is scheduled as often as possible for each other.

Some Insight Making this effort and ensuring it is well noted and received is a good way to build a relationship that lasts through thick and thin.

Spending quality time, is something that needs planned attention, and certainly a concerted effort on the part of both parties especially when there are significant work and family commitments to contend with, on a daily basis.

However without this effort, the relationship will eventually become stale and boring, which could lead to either party seeking the missing link outside to the existing relationship.

This of course would be a rather dangerous journey to explore as the eventual damage to the existing relationship could be so extensive that recovery may not be an available option. 

For some, establishing time for both parties to set aside may be a struggle but the insistence of this very healthy endeavour, will eventually bring forth good and beneficial results to the relationship. 

Persistence in this area would definitely be well rewarded in the end, as it will clearly show each other the level of commitment both parties are willing to take to strengthen the relationship.

Being vocal about this is also very important, as this too will show the significant other, the seriousness of the individual’s commitment to the betterment of the relationship. 

                       In the end

Every living element functions better with the presence of love in the existing equation. 

However most people are so caught up with their own everyday agendas, they often forget the importance of demonstrating love towards each other, especially within the marriage perimeter. Almost every married couple will be able to relate to this particular lack within their marriage at one point or another. Therefore it would be very helpful if both parties understood the importance of being lovingly demonstrative within the marriage as this will often be the single most effective tool to keep the marriage from adversity and strife.

Being able to demonstrate love through actions and verbalization is something very mush expected, certainly highly regarded, and valued as most couple would attest to.

 This demonstration will speak volumes into the condition and well being of the relationship as it would be the ideal and significant way to show each other’s love and commitment to making the marriage work.  

Lack of demonstrative love will only allow negativity and questions to creep into the marriage thus creating a lot of unnecessary animosity toward each other. 

Human being respond very well to acts of kindness and love, thus there is no need to refrain from such displays of lovingness simply because a couple is married or has been married for a long time.

 In fact the longer the couples are together, the more the acts of lovingness should be encouraged and displayed. 

With the presence of such acts being prevalent within the relationship, there would be very little room for the couple to find fault with each other, and even when fault is found the negativity surrounding such a situation could be significantly minimized. 

Therefore the importance of demonstrating love should never be underestimated